Writing About Lingerie Doesn’t Mean I Want to Hear Your Sexual Fantasies

Writing About Lingerie Doesn’t Mean I Want to Hear Your Sexual Fantasies

Today I’m addressing something many lingerie bloggers face every day: unwanted and unsolicited sexual messages from male readers. For some reason, complete strangers think that—just because a woman wears, writes about, or reviews lingerie—she has an interest in hearing about someone’s sexual fantasies. Usually, it’s not an issue for me. One of the great perks…

self-care

Self-Care Made Easy With Intimate Apparel

Self-care can be tough. It’s only possible for me if I find time to unplug from work for a few days or can take a relaxing vacation. Self-care also seems unreasonable during the holiday season. After all, it’s about “giving” to others. Yes, it’s great connecting with people and going out to parties. But I get…

holiday gift guide

Holiday Lingerie Gift Guide: Celebrate the Season With Intimate Apparel

Even when I’m tired of bras, I always manage to fall back in love with lingerie right in time for the winter holidays. It’s easy to dress bigger and bolder for the season, but not as many of us take that “look at me” attitude and apply it to our lingerie drawers. That’s why I…

The Bra Zone

The Bra Zone: How to Find Your Ideal Size, Style, and Support

Does bra-shopping drive you crazy? Do you wear a worn out model even when you know you could use better support? The world of bras has changed. There are more places to buy, multiple ways to size, and dozens of brands and styles from which to choose. There’s also plenty of confusion surrounding bra fit and sizing, and…