While I was on the phone the other night with a friend, the most awkward aspect of my job came up: lingerie blogging. The friend in question is great, but she lives a state away now. Our friendship consists of long phone calls every other week to keep in touch. In our latest one, she […]
Read moreWhere to Buy Bras? Full Bust and Full Figure Solutions At Any Price Point
When people find out what I do, they have one question: “Where can I buy bras?” People ask this independent of venue, appropriateness, timing or awkwardness. I’ve had my mother’s friends ask me where to find sexy lingerie while sitting on my childhood sofa and had others talk to me about nipple coverage in elegant […]
Read moreLessons in Badassery: Some Thoughts on My Journey
The word “badass,” as a descriptor, is popping up quite a bit these days, both in my personal and professional life. Back in May, my daughter gave me this Mother’s Day card: It ranks as the best card ever (except maybe those early hand-made ones covered in dyed, dried up pasta). Badassery also came up […]
Read moreDate Night Lingerie for Hot Older Women
Where are all the hot older women in lingerie advertising? There are a few, but they are a rare find in a field of hard young bodies. When you age, you also get soft in some places—even if, like me, you work out with weights three times a week. And while “hot” may not be used […]
Read moreWriting About Lingerie Doesn't Mean I Want to Hear Your Sexual Fantasies
Today I’m addressing something many lingerie bloggers face every day: unwanted and unsolicited sexual messages from male readers. For some reason, complete strangers think that—just because a woman wears, writes about, or reviews lingerie—she has an interest in hearing about someone’s sexual fantasies. Usually, it’s not an issue for me. One of the great perks […]
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